Don’t take my word for it! (anyone get that Reading Rainbow reference?)

In case you haven’t looked at my obnoxious amount of testimonials…here are a few more!

Right now I am in the best relationship of my life and I do not say that lightly.    We have been in a relationship for 15 months.  It’s a relationship filled with mutual respect and love.  We communicate very well together and are deeply in love with each other.   We both have  past hurts that creep up sometimes and I’m most proud that we can communicate so well so we know what we need from each other.    Last week he said something unintentionally that hurt me and I was able to articulate what it was that he said and how it made me feel and he was able to immediately realize why I would feel that way.    We talked it out and it was a very grown up conversation.     I can’t believe it took me 7 years to find him but it was worth the wait.     I just now texted him and asked him if he had anything to add and he said ‘Life is best when shared with someone special.   Keep it light and full of laughter’.     That sums up our relationship so well.   

Forever grateful for Kira and the hard work she does with helping other women be who they were meant to be.   Krystal

Before the OM I felt like I only chose unavailable men. They were in another relationship, emotionally unavailable, long-distance, demanding jobs…But the OM showed me that I was being  unavailable because I was not showing up fully as myself and asking for what was important to me. I also learned that I needed to to look for men who I deserved to have in my life, vs me trying to fit the desires and lifestyles or “who they were looking for”.

I was able to find a partner who had the same interest and ability to communicate, be introspective, supportive, show up fully for each other daily, and share intimacy. We are deeply grateful for what we have each day yet are committed to growth as individuals and as a couple.

Julie, Madison

Once I met Bryan, I knew this time it would be different. I  immediately went into OM mode. I set a boundary (him not needing to see me every day) & he followed it. I set another boundary (him buying me dinner all the time….a previous abusive relationship trigger) and he followed it. (Rinse and repeat for the last 5 months!) And yes, he sets them too.

Every single woman on this earth should do this. Married, divorced, single, widowed, etc. It’s about personal development.

Michelle, Madison

I’ve been seeing my new man-friend for 4 months now, and we had a two hour conversation last night about how neither of us would have been ready for what we are building prior to this time in our lives. We each have different strategies for how we’re working on ourselves so as to be able to be present and active in our relationship – and the OM class was a huge part of my growth.

Valuing myself, greater self-awareness, knowing what a relationship can and can’t do for me, understanding and feeling comfortable communicating boundaries, asking for (and knowing) what I need, sitting in vulnerability, realizing when I’m telling stories about who I am/he is (versus really looking at what actually is), being realistic and honest with myself and him about my own issues — these are all things I am more able to do because of the work that was spurred on during the OM class. Thank you Kira!  

Leah – Madison, WI  (now 2 years and counting!)

We met three months ago in a serendipitous and spontaneous gathering of mutual friends at a concert in Chicago, and have been enjoying and building a slow-going but steady friendship and relationship  since. In the early weeks, he chuckled and called me a “fucking unicorn,” and has since nicknamed me “Uni” for short. He calls me every morning to hear my live voice vs texting (score!), and all of our friends say the connection they see (and we feel) is undeniable. Looking forward to future things. So grateful for the OM !

Lisa

Tonight we are going to  review my Owner’s Manual  and begin talks about living together! I’m so excited (and not anxious) to hear his thoughts and share mine. I have never had a relationship like this before where I am comfy being myself.

I am where I am because of what I learned from you…I’m open, informed, in touch with who I am and what I want and need! Thank you from my whole heart! You rocked my fucking world Kira!!

Sherri

Kira gave me the real talk I needed; she had me put on my big girl panties and take a good look at myself and what I wanted.  The growth I experienced from her coaching helped me transform my attitude about dating, and I’ve since snagged the love of my life (who loves my big girl panties btw) and I’m exactly where I want to be!!

– Jeanne,  Madison, WI (now happily married )

Yup.  It is worth every cent. You know what is more expensive? Couples therapy.

And can you really put a price on amazing relationships and waking up loved for who you are every. single. day?  Wait, I totally did.  $3000.  This program is half the price and twice the impact of most of my competitors.  Why?  Because I am trying to change the way we date and have relationships in this world!

Just a reminder of here is what is included!

You have mind-blowing content and support for 12 months! THAT’S A YEAR!!

You get 12+ years of my blood, sweat, tears, research, conversations, story-collecting, coaching, live events, retreats, coaching certificate, positive psychology certificate and obsession with love and relationships. And you get to borrow all of that brain anytime you want on the Q & A calls or in the FB community that I visit multiple times a day and at a live event!

You get an amazing community of women who are doing the work just like you!  Having better and smarter conversations, changing their lives and getting shit done!

You get access to a live retreat(s) in Mexico that is nothing less than life-changing and you will walk away confident, supported, happy and loved.

You even get awesome gifts to support you in your changes and a few fun ones because getting gifts is awesome.

But most importantly, you will walk away knowing what you personally need, how to ask for it, how to set boundaries, how to communicate, how to be vulnerable, how to date for success and how to create incredible love with another person.

That is worth everything.

Of course you are nervous!  That is 100% normal.  Getting real with ourselves and vulnerable with others can feel super scary!  

But the stuff you are scared of looking at is affecting you whether you address it or not.  So why not look at it, learn from that sh#t, and let go of it?

But let me tell you this.  Getting real and getting vulnerable are crucial for all relationships, so why not practice in a completely safe and supportive space.  So when you are ready to get to know someone, you already have practiced the skills to do it!

Just like riding a unicorn, this shit gets real…..real fast. 🙂

I will be your biggest cheerleader, because I want this for you.  But I will also call you out on perspectives and mindsets that are holding you back.  But I do it in a super kind way.

But don’t be confused…I am not here to always be your friend, I am here to change your life.  I will tell you the things that your friends and families won’t.  That is why you pay me the big bucks.

This will be one of the hardest things you have ever done, but if you REALLY do it, you will walk away a better person.  That part is up to you.

Here is what a current OM participant had to say…

I am reflecting on my July goals and gratitude and just wanted to tell you Kira Sabin that I wrote you down as the person I am grateful for. You continue to push me but also support me every step of the way. When I first signed up I was really intimidated and wasn’t sure if I could really open up for fear of having you blasting me in the group. I realize now that you truly hold people accountable but in the most loving and supportive way. You also don’t just let us sit in our bullshit you ask questions and encourage us to dig in. Just wanted you to know how thankful I am that I found your podcast and I’m loving this adventure and this year with you. So glad I took the leap and your guidance along the way means the world. I just can’t wait to get to Mexico and meet you in person.”

I am a HUGE fan of therapy.  HUGE!  Therapy changed my life and started me on this 20 years and counting self acceptance journey.  If you know you have leftover trauma from childhood or a past relationship…start there!  In fact, I encourage you to have a therapist through the OM process.  We even have two therapists on the team!

I have even had many therapists recommend and even go through this program because we all need support and guides to evolve and grow.

But when you have done therapy and are ready to focus on dating and relationship mindsets and skills…that is where the OM comes in. We do a little focus on the past to learn from it (module 3 and 4), but most of our work is looking towards the future! What YOU need for a healthy relationship, what mindsets and perspectives are holding you back, what skills do you need to build to find and keep an amazing relationship.

Here are what a few former clients have said…

I’m 40 years old and I’ve never been married. I spent my 30s falling for a rogues gallery of unavailable men. When I decided that I was ready to change that, I turned to Kira Sabin and the Owners Manual class. I’ve seen therapists in the past. I’ve uncovered the parental issues. I’ve identified the patterns. I wanted to take action. “How did you learn to love?” Kira asked and my world changed. If I learned to love one way (a way that wasn’t working for me), that meant I could learn to love in a new way, a way that does work for me. With Kira’s guidance and the incredible support from my classmates, I am breaking down my behaviors, learning how to establish boundaries and trust, and clearly identifying and articulating what I need for a healthy relationship. For the first time in my life, I am learning how to deeply care for myself in life and love and the ripple effects are already transformational. Kira is an empowering, inspirational, down and dirty, honest troop leader. If you’re ready to change your love, join Kira Sabin’s Owner’s Manual class. It’s the best investment I’ve ever made in myself.  – Susanna, NYC

“As a new clinical psychologist I’ve had 7 year of training in many different treatment modalities, techniques, and have gone through my own therapy treatment. I’ve gone to tons of trainings, workshops, conferences, but, honestly, this has been one of the most transformative and eye opening experiences That I’ve ever had and I want to thank you so much for all you do. I’ve learned so much more about myself these past 10 weeks, than I’ve learned in the past 10 years. Much of it was painful to examine at times, other times it was so validating, either way it was hugely necessary. I’m still realizing that I need to heal old wounds.. and continue working on breaking my maladaptive patterns..but at least now, I know what needs healing. I’ve also been setting boundaries like a Mofo and having tough as shit conversations-which I’ve hide away from soo much cause I was that person who never spoke up out of fear!! Thanks to this course I finally learning what I need from others and learning how to communicate that! For example, over xmas break.. I set some significant boundaries with my parents..(this is huge) and Finally after 5 years had a heart to heart conversation with my best friend of 30 years!! Natasha

I have worked with Kira for a short time, and I am so transformed.  I think of all the YEARS I spent reading self-help articles, bitching to friends about my love life, and stumbling through the dating world on my own and I cringe, because in less than six months, Kira gave me all the life-changing tools I needed to build a healthy relationship.  And even more importantly, I know myself better and love myself more.  Why didn’t I call her sooner?!  In the Owner’s Manual, Kira assigned fun but challenging homework assignments that pushed me to shift the way I see myself and share with others.  Then she used my journals and reflections as the starting point for our conversations.  Our sessions went deeper than therapy because they had focus.  At the end of each session, I felt a surge of confidence to get out there in the world and be vulnerable, and to connect with people from a place of trust and love.  It’s helped me with dating, with my relationship with my family, and with asking for help pursuing other goals.  I needed help with money, so I got a financial planner.  I needed help being healthier, so I sought out new exercise instructors.  And I really needed help asking for what I need and deserve, so I got a life coach.  And I’m truly grateful that I did.  This past chapter of my single life was full of self-doubt and constant chaos. Now I have started a new one of trust, romance, and excitement for the future. And it’s a page-turner!  Sara

The video calls will be offered throughout the month and you choose the times you want to come that work best for your schedule. 

Here is the calendar to see if you can find times to work!

I am beyond honored to work with the ladies in the OM.  These women are wicked smart, kind,  thoughtful, and authentic.  They are generous with their stories and their support.  

It has provided me with a great group of like minded women; who encourages and supports me as well as cheers me on throughout my journey. It’s quite amazing really!  – Indhira, NYC

I never expected in a million years that I would also be connected to the most incredible women I have ever met. Doing the OM and having this  community has been life changing, The love and support that I have received has changed me completely as a person. I am so thankful I have these women in my life and to have created lifelong connections and friendships with positive, like minded, supportive, loving, women. – Cassie

The women who were part of the OM  are truly some of the most beautiful, strong, intelligent, compassionate, and supportive women I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.  We were able to form a strong bond almost immediately and our friendships have only just begun.  What a cool experience it has been to connect with these women and to watch them grow, while experiencing my own personal growth at the same time! – Kathryn

One whole YEAR! 

I have learned that it takes time to not only do the work but also process and practice. You are unlearning years if not decades of unhealthy behavior. 

You start your pre-work the day you sign-up and you have one year from the day you sign-up to finish the work.  That’s about a module a month.  That is TOTALLY doable.

After your year is up you can extend your time if you want continued support and you will also have access to your portal indefinitely to refer back to whenever you need it.

January 12th.  

At this point, I plan on running the OM 4 times a year.  

Our approximate dates to start a new cohort in 2021 are January 12th, early April, July, and September.

Yup.  That was our house in Merida, Mexico earlier this year.  I like all things to be onbrand. 🙂