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YOUR MINI MANUAL

Go from frustrated single to DATING Genius!

 
Meet the Mini Manual, a 5 month online course
to get clear on what you need, build self-worth,
and have the tools to get into an amazing relationship.
 

 

YOUR Mini Manual

Meet the Mini Manual, a 5 month online course
 to get clear on what you need, build self-worth,
and have the tools to get into an amazing relationship.

ARE YOU READY?

Would all passengers in cabins “Single AF” please commence boarding.

I REPEAT:
 
Would all passengers who have ever 
fallen asleep spooning their ice-cream, 
cat, or romantic self-help book 
please report for boarding.
 
 

Would all passengers in cabins “Single AF” please commence boarding.

I REPEAT:
 
Would all passengers who have ever 
fallen asleep spooning their ice-cream, 
cat, or romantic self-help book 
please report for boarding.
 
 
MODERN DATING IS A 
GIANT CLUSTERFORK!
 
 
  • Tinder, texting & trust issues.
  • Ghosting. Breadcrumbing. Zombieing.
  • Friends with benefits & frustrations.
  • Hookups, heartaches & hurt feelings.
  • Speed dates. Blind dates. No dates.
  • Cheating, lying & emotionally unavailability.
  • Break-ups, set-ups & setbacks.
  • Commitment issues. Mommy/Daddy issues.
  • Netflix and chill…?
 
 

Um. WTF is even happening?!

MODERN DATING IS A 
GIANT CLUSTERFORK!
  • Tinder, texting & trust issues.
  • Ghosting. Breadcrumbing. Zombieing.
  • Friends with benefits & frustrations.
  • Hookups, heartaches & hurt feelings.
  • Speed dates. Blind dates. No dates.
  • Cheating, lying & emotionally unavailability.
  • Break-ups, set-ups & setbacks.
  • Commitment issues. Mommy/Daddy issues.
  • Netflix and chill..?

Um. WTF is even happening?!

 
In the past 40 years, relationships &
dating culture have totally changed. 
 

Back in the day, all women were supposed to want was a ring on their 

finger and a fancy man to hold open doors & foot the bill.

Now? We want more.

We want better.

We want true partnerships filled with love, support, laughter and trust. 

But we don’t know how the hell to get it. 

When did the greatest adventure of our lives turn into a series of unfortunate events?

 

 
In the past 40 years, relationships &
dating culture have totally changed. 
 

Back in the day, all women were supposed to want was a ring on their finger and a fancy man to hold open doors & foot the bill.

Now? We want more.

We want better.

We want true partnerships filled with love, support, laughter and trust. 

But we don’t know how the hell to get it. 

When did the greatest adventure of our lives turn into a series of unfortunate events?

 

But here’s the deal, Sugarpants-

The relationship you want is totally possible.

And it all starts with the Owner’s Manual.

But here’s the deal, Sugarpants-

The relationship you want is totally possible.

And it all starts with the Mini Owner’s Manual.

I’m Kira Sabin.

Your resident captain, coach and positive psychology practitioner. For over ten years now, I’ve been helping singles just like you stop sabotaging their own shit and start creating healthy and loving relationships. 

No, that’s not a typo. I didn’t mean to say, “find the one”

‘Cause I know you think that everything will be rainbows and unicorns once you find love and meet the perfect partner. 

But the truth is that love isn’t hiding from you. It isn’t playing some epic game of hide and seek. Love is something you have to create by sorting through your baggage. Baggage that you probably didn’t create but has to be sorted through just the same. 

 

What, you didn’t think I was going to let you continue lugging around those Samsonites, did you?

Oh, hell no.

 

 

I’m Kira Sabin.

Your resident captain, coach and positive psychology practitioner. For over ten years now, I’ve been helping singles just like you stop sabotaging their own shit and start creating healthy and loving relationships. 

No, that’s not a typo. I didn’t mean to say, “find the one”

‘Cause I know you think that everything will be rainbows and unicorns once you find love and meet the perfect partner. 

But the truth is that love isn’t hiding from you. It isn’t playing some epic game of hide and seek. Love is something you have to create by sorting through your baggage.  Baggage that you probably didn’t create but has to be sorted through just the same. 

What, you didn’t think I was going to let you continue lugging around those Samsonites, did you?

Oh, hell no.

 

This is about helping you – the beautiful, complex woman who has had imperfect role models, lots of bad dates, questionable relationships that just didn’t work out – become an empowered (carry-on only) adventurer in charge of her destiny.

The reality is we aren’t taught this stuff. 

There isn’t a class in school called: “How you love: Learning your attachment styles and cultivating your self-worth and self-compassion.” 

We aren’t shown how to create boundaries, solve problems and speak up for ourselves, all while maintaining our vulnerability. And we sure as hell aren’t shown how to create love. 

(Hands up if you didn’t even know that was a thing until now?)

This stuff doesn’t come naturally. These are all legit skills, like riding a bike, playing the piano, and baking the perfect chocolate chip cookie.

But unlike regular skills, there isn’t a reliable and effective class you can attend, or an instruction manual you can read, to really wrap your head around what it takes to create love in your life. 

This is about helping you – the beautiful, complex woman who has had imperfect role models, lots of bad dates, questionable relationships that just didn’t work out – become an empowered (carry-on only) adventurer in charge of her destiny.

The reality is we aren’t taught this stuff. 

There isn’t a class in school called: “How you love: Learning your attachment styles and cultivating your self-worth and self-compassion.” 

We aren’t shown how to create boundaries, solve problems and speak up for ourselves, all while maintaining our vulnerability. And we sure as hell aren’t shown how to create love. 

(Hands up if you didn’t even know that was a thing until now?)

This stuff doesn’t come naturally. These are all legit skills, like riding a bike, playing the piano, and baking the perfect chocolate chip cookie.

But unlike regular skills, there isn’t a reliable and effective class you can attend, or an instruction manual you can read, to really wrap your head around what it takes to create love in your life. 

OR AT LEAST THERE WASN’T … UNTIL NOW.

Welcome to the Mini Owner’s Manual.

Your Mini Owner’s Manual – or Mini OM – is a five-month, self-paced, online adventure for women ready to transform their love life from the inside out. It is a simplified version of my process the Owner’s Manual giving you a solid foundation to date and create relationships with confidence.

It’s life coaching, positive psychology, neuroscience, deep self-work, community support, relationships skills practice, and self-love mentoring, all wrapped up in a step-by-step (and totally life-changing) experience. 

But while you may do the work on your own, you’ll never be alone.

When you join this program you’ll get access to a private community filled with singles just like you who want to learn the skills and tools required to create healthy and loving relationships and create them from day one with another imperfect person. 

Though we all may have different stories, backgrounds, locations, experience, we are all working towards the same thing…  

A strong, healthy amazing relationship filled with love.

 

Welcome to the Mini Owner’s Manual.

Your Mini Owner’s Manual – or Mini OM – is a five-month, self-paced, online adventure for women ready to transform their love life from the inside out. It is a simplified version of my process the Owner’s Manual giving you a solid foundation to date and create relationships with confidence.

It’s life coaching, positive psychology, neuroscience, deep self-work, community support, relationships skills practice, and self-love mentoring, all wrapped up in a step-by-step (and totally life-changing) experience. 

But while you may do the work on your own, you’ll never be alone.

When you join this program you’ll get access to a private community filled with singles just like you who want to learn the skills and tools required to create healthy and loving relationships and create them from day one with another imperfect person. 

Though we all may have different stories, backgrounds, locations, experience, we are all working towards the same thing…  

A STRONG, HEALTHY AMAZING RELATIONSHIP FILLED WITH LOVE.
True (and truly inspiring) transformations

I feel way more at peace with myself.

It's the strangest thing...I feel way more at peace with myself. I feel way more confident that not only will a guy show up without me having to worry about it, but I feel freer to be exactly who I am so that if a relationship comes it will just add to the joyful things I'm already filling my life with. It's a really solid and stress-free way to approach dating and relationships! 🙂

-Femi, Austin, TX

League of Adventurous Singles
2018-12-06T18:51:35+00:00

-Femi, Austin, TX

It's the strangest thing...I feel way more at peace with myself. I feel way more confident that not only will a guy show up without me having to worry about it, but I feel freer to be exactly who I am so that if a relationship comes it will just add to the joyful things I'm already filling my life with. It's a really solid and stress-free way to approach dating and relationships! 🙂

She has helped me see what went wrong in my marriage and how to move forward and learn from the situation.

Kira has been my rock through my divorce and getting back into dating. She has helped me see what went wrong in my marriage and how to move forward and learn from the situation. We have worked on finding back to who I really am and want to be. She has also been a total rockstar in helping me navigate the tricky beginning phase of a new relationship. She is such an incredible support, I don't know how I would have done this without her. She is very, very kind, encouraging and understanding, yet will let me know when I need to be reigned in. Kira is just a cool human being and I'm thrilled to be working with her.

-Ida, Chicago

League of Adventurous Singles
2018-12-06T19:06:27+00:00

-Ida, Chicago

Kira has been my rock through my divorce and getting back into dating. She has helped me see what went wrong in my marriage and how to move forward and learn from the situation. We have worked on finding back to who I really am and want to be. She has also been a total rockstar in helping me navigate the tricky beginning phase of a new relationship. She is such an incredible support, I don't know how I would have done this without her. She is very, very kind, encouraging and understanding, yet will let me know when I need to be reigned in. Kira is just a cool human being and I'm thrilled to be working with her.

Left the Program Forever Changed

In a sea of relationship programs that exist for single women, "The Owner's Manual" is a breath of fresh air. Kira's program not only gives you the tools you need to have a kick-ass relationship, it also helps you do the deep soulful work necessary in order to be a better partner.  I left the program forever changed.


The best part, however, is Kira as a teacher. Throughout the course, her passion about her clients truly shines through. Besides - a woman who knows how to use "fuck" and make it elegant is someone that will always have a place in my heart.  

-Robin, NYC

League of Adventurous Singles
2018-12-20T00:17:36+00:00

-Robin, NYC

In a sea of relationship programs that exist for single women, "The Owner's Manual" is a breath of fresh air. Kira's program not only gives you the tools you need to have a kick-ass relationship, it also helps you do the deep soulful work necessary in order to be a better partner.  I left the program forever changed. The best part, however, is Kira as a teacher. Throughout the course, her passion about her clients truly shines through. Besides - a woman who knows how to use "fuck" and make it elegant is someone that will always have a place in my heart.  

I have so many tools at my fingertips now and feel much more confident in myself.

I've spent my entire adult life wishing for and wanting the kind of connection and intimacy I saw in so many other relationships. I thought if I found the "right"person it would just happen.  Now after the OM, I have so much more self awareness. I'm learning how to show myself compassion. How to stop being so hard on myself. I've learned that connection doesn't just happen. It's something you create with another person by being emotionally and physically available. I have so many tools at my fingertips now and feel much more confident in myself.

-Stephanie, San Francisco, CA

League of Adventurous Singles
2018-12-20T00:18:18+00:00

-Stephanie, San Francisco, CA

I've spent my entire adult life wishing for and wanting the kind of connection and intimacy I saw in so many other relationships. I thought if I found the "right"person it would just happen.  Now after the OM, I have so much more self awareness. I'm learning how to show myself compassion. How to stop being so hard on myself. I've learned that connection doesn't just happen. It's something you create with another person by being emotionally and physically available. I have so many tools at my fingertips now and feel much more confident in myself.

After OM I feel so empowered and know exactly what I want in a relationship

  Before OM I thought that I was the only one struggling with knowing what I wanted in a relationship and how to ask for what I need because I didn’t want to be perceived as “High Maintenance”! After OM I feel so empowered and know exactly what I want in a relationship and am more confident in having the conversations that need to be had when the time comes!  You will dig deep, you will laugh, you will ugly cry and most of all you will feel loved and supported on your journey! 

-Sam, Little Rock

League of Adventurous Singles
2018-12-20T00:18:56+00:00

-Sam, Little Rock

  Before OM I thought that I was the only one struggling with knowing what I wanted in a relationship and how to ask for what I need because I didn’t want to be perceived as “High Maintenance”! After OM I feel so empowered and know exactly what I want in a relationship and am more confident in having the conversations that need to be had when the time comes!  You will dig deep, you will laugh, you will ugly cry and most of all you will feel loved and supported on your journey! 

Kira has pushed me out of my comfort zone and out of my shell.

Some of my favorite things Kira has helped me to discover…Teach people how to treat me, both in dating and at home with my kids. Know what I want and need AND don’t be afraid to ask for it. Start things the way you want them to end.


Kira has pushed me out of my comfort zone and out of my shell. She is willing to hold my hand if I really need it, but there are no unicorns here. :)”

-Michelle, Toronto ON

League of Adventurous Singles
2018-12-20T00:19:38+00:00

-Michelle, Toronto ON

Some of my favorite things Kira has helped me to discover…Teach people how to treat me, both in dating and at home with my kids. Know what I want and need AND don’t be afraid to ask for it. Start things the way you want them to end. Kira has pushed me out of my comfort zone and out of my shell. She is willing to hold my hand if I really need it, but there are no unicorns here. :)”

Working with Kira has been one of the greatest decisions I have ever made.

When I heard about Kira I was struggling with being single and dating, looking for love in all the wrong places, chasing after fairytale romance, dreaming of a man to come along who would complete me. I hired Kira and she took me on an amazing journey of self discovery and taught me what real love is all about. Not only has she transformed my thoughts on love and showed me the reality of what relationships really are, she has been a friend and been by my side to support me when I try at this dating thing and it just doesn't work out. 

-Katie, UT

League of Adventurous Singles
2018-12-20T00:20:15+00:00

-Katie, UT

When I heard about Kira I was struggling with being single and dating, looking for love in all the wrong places, chasing after fairytale romance, dreaming of a man to come along who would complete me. I hired Kira and she took me on an amazing journey of self discovery and taught me what real love is all about. Not only has she transformed my thoughts on love and showed me the reality of what relationships really are, she has been a friend and been by my side to support me when I try at this dating thing and it just doesn't work out. 
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BY THE END OF YOUR mini OM JOURNEY, YOU’LL:
Know what works –and doesn’t work –for YOU in relationships.
Have cultivated 
self-worth & self-compassion skills.
FEEL MORE CONFIDENT AND IN CONTROL WHEN DATING.
UNDERSTAND HOW YOU LOVE, AND YOUR PERSONAL ATTACHMENT STYLES.
KNOW HOW TO SET PERSONAL BOUNDARIES WITH ACTUAL SCRIPTS & REAL LIFE SCENARIOS.
UNDERSTAND SMART DATING & RELATIONSHIP TIMELINES TO SET THINGS UP FOR SUCCESS, EVERY TIME.

THIS JOURNEY ISN’T JUST ABOUT DATING. THIS IS ABOUT TRANSFORMING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS BY FINALLY BELIEVING YOU ARE TRULY WORTHY OF GREAT LOVE. 

 

BECAUSE YOU ARE.

This isn’t just about sex or dating. This is about transforming your relationships by finally believing you’re truly worthy of great love.

 

BECAUSE YOU ARE.

It’s about becoming more confident, even when you’re deep sea diving outside your comfort zone.

It’s about dealing with rejection, without having to self-soothe and resort to excessive wine and cheese consumption.

It’s about teaching people how to treat you, without feeling like you’re needy or demanding.

BECause you deserve this.

Happiness. Love.
And a relationship that feels like you’ve won the fricken lottery.

It’s about becoming more confident, even when you’re deep sea diving outside your comfort zone.

It’s about dealing with rejection, without having to self-soothe and resort to excessive wine and cheese consumption.

It’s about teaching people how to treat you, without feeling like your needy or demanding.

BECause you deserve this.

 

Happiness. Love.
And a relationship that feels like 

you’ve won the fricken lottery.

 

I’ve helped thousands of women create
actual, real love that lasts. Like, really.


Take a look at a few success stories.

Love is possible. At any age, size, weight, shape or stage of your life.
I’m here to teach you how.
Love is possible. At any age, size, weight, shape or stage of your life.
I’m here to teach you how.
NOT SURE IF YOU’RE THE RIGHT CANDIDATE?
LET’S CHECK.
THE MINI OM IS THE PERFECT COURSE FOR YOU IF:

You have a great job and awesome friends but STILL feel completely unlovable (and like you’re failing at relationships).

You’re single AF and whispering to yourself, “Holy crap, how and when did this happen?”

You’re divorced and there’s no way in hell you’re making the same mistakes again.

You’re sick of self-sabotaging and want to create a life that’s led by love – NOT fear.

You have literally never dated before and the thought of it scares you shitless.  But you know you want a relationship but have ZERO idea how to get it.

You don’t need help getting a date. You need help creating a real relationship that will last longer than the tub of Nutella on your counter.

You’ve tried all the things. Dating websites. Matchmakers. Blind dates. Rain dances. Now you want something that’s gonna stick.

You want to quit talking yourself out of relationships before they’ve even started.

You’re pretty sure that your relationship picker is broken, and you feel like you’re going to stay single, frustrated and alone forever.

You’re tired of going to every event, wedding, office party, family holiday meal, cat show…alone.

You are sick of looking around at all of your friends in relationships, getting married and wondering “when is it my turn?”

You want to believe that love is possible. At any age, size, weight, shape or stage of your life.  BTW, it is.

THE MINI MANUAL IS A SELF-PACED ONLINE PROGRAM THAT YOU CAN DO FROM THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN HOME. 
 
YOU CAN DO IT:  HANGING OUT WITH YOUR PETS, ON THE COUCH, IN BED,  LISTENING TO LIZZO or ABBA, TAKING DANCE BREAKS, DRINKING WINE & NAKED IF YOU WANT!
THE MINI MANUAL IS A SELF-PACED ONLINE PROGRAM THAT YOU CAN DO FROM THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN HOME.  
 
YOU CAN DO IT:  HANGING OUT WITH YOUR PETS, ON THE COUCH, IN BED,  LISTENING TO LIZZO or abba, TAKING DANCE BREAKS, DRINKING WINE & NAKED IF YOU WANT! 

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TO TELL YOU ALL THE DETAILS

TAKE A LOOK INSIDE THE MINI OM EXPERIENCE: COURSE MODULES 

If you’re feeling lost and confused in your love life, you’re not alone. The landscape of love has shifted and relationships in 2020 are dramatically different than they’ve ever been before. 

 

So why are we dating the same way we did in 1968? In this module, you’re going to learn what love really looks like, and how to build healthy, working relationships. 

Have you ever met someone, thought there was potential, but then something weird popped up that made you think that it’s not a good match? 

Here’s the thing: We all learn to show (and receive) love in different ways.

 

Someone could be a really great match for you, but they just don’t know how to love you. So we’re going to dig into the ways that you first learned love. Was it healthy? Is it helping you attract healthy people, or is it leading you down a road of unhappiness and disconnection?

Self-worth is one of the most important aspects of dating. If we don’t have it, everyone we meet becomes a potential “fixer”— and expecting someone else to make you feel worthy will kill a relationship faster than Raid kills ants.

This week, you’ll learn what self-worth really is, and why it really is so important. 

We look at how your self-worth (or lack thereof) is showing up in your dating and relationships with a self-worth assessment that highlights where you should be focusing your work. 

We also get into techniques that build your self-compassion, which in turn will boost your self-worth and equip you with the resilience to deal with rejection — while dating like a boss. This will genuinely change your life.

Do you never want to tell someone NO because you’re afraid they’ll be upset or not like you? Do you bend over backwards to please others? Do you overshare (vomit out your life story) with people you just met because they’re “just going to have to like you for who you are”?  (Yup, that’s a boundary issue too.)

We look at people pleasing (trust me, it is killing you), co-dependence, and those big effing walls you like to put up and pretend are healthy. You’re going to discover INTERDEPENDENCE, and it’s going to completely shift how you show up in the world. (Hint: That’s where everyone feels f*cking amazing!)

 

Now that you know All Of The Things, how do you actually use them for dating? I got you, boo. In this module, you’ll discover first date mindsets and learn the only three questions you need to ask yourself after every date. 

Next, I’ll show you how to spot emotional unavailability (sooner rather than later) and what to do about it.

Finally, you’ll learn when & how to be vulnerable in new situations, and when to set boundaries. I’m even going to give you scripts for the DTR (Define the Relationship) talk and other awkward dating situations. Phew!

 

READY TO TAKE A PEEK INSIDE Mini OM?
Here’s What you GET:

5 online modules

Your own PRIVATE learning portal

On your own private learning portal packed with videos, audios, quizzes, playlists and worksheets to guide you in understanding all the things about love and relationships that you never learned (but totally f*cking should have).   This is at your own pace and you get 5 months to finish them with access to the fb group and me.  

You get your own awesome learning portal. You’ll love it. It’s been created for multiple learning styles and is super easy to work with. You will have access to your portal indefinitely even after the Mini OM is done so you can refer back to it while you are dating.

Online facebook community

ACTION STEPS TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE

Your squad and online family, in one happy Facebook community. You’ll have a safe space to connect with me, and other incredible singles like you who are also going through the process.  

You can ask questions, share successes, get vulnerable, learn from others’ stories, and create solid new friendships with incredible singles who are learning and evolving just like you. I will also be doing occasional FB Lives, pajama watch parties and other fun games and challenges.

 Who cares what you learn if you never get off your couch and apply it? #nobody. Which is why every single module of the Mini Owner’s Manual will get you out trying new things, meeting new people, and stepping outside your comfort zone.

‘Cause that’s where all the good stuff happens, babycakes!

Ability to access other modules

ACCESS TO RETREATS + GROUPS

Is there another module that you really want to learn about but isn’t included?  You will have the option to buy individual modules that are not included in the original five to keep growing in your skills, mindset and knowledge!

From cabanas in Costa Rica to villas in Italy (plus adventures in Greece, Mexico and on cruises!) our graduate events have to be seen to be believed.

Once you’ve graduated from the OM process you can travel with me and other amazing ladies from around the globe to incredible places all while continuing smart conversations and practicing what you’ve learned!

UPGRADES YOU CAN ADD TO YOUR EXPERIENCE

  • MONTHLY GROUP Q & A Calls with Kira (to bring questions about the work, struggles and life in general. Only $99 for all 5 months
  • 1 ONE-ON-ONE 60 MINUTE DEEP DIVE CALL WITH KIRA at any point that you need it. $250
  • 4 Day live event in Denver June 25-28th to practice all that you have learned. (Travel, food and accommodations not included) $499. Scroll down to the bottom of the page for details.

LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THE OM ...

MINI Owner’s Manual

 
YOUR FIVE MONTH JOURNEY INCLUDES:
 
  • 5 online modules filled with playlists, meditations, workbooks, journal questions, action steps and bonus items to keep learning.
  • Your Own Learning Portal to do the mini manual at your own pace with access for your lifetime!
  • The Best Darn Community of Ladies EVER in the private fb group.
  • Access to me (Kira) in the fb group to answer questions and give advice.
  • Workbooks developed for different learning styles filled with videos, audios, activities and more!
  • Opportunity to upgrade to calls, live events and more to make the course even better!
 

LOVE IS POSSIBLE. AT ANY AGE, SIZE, WEIGHT, SHAPE OR STAGE OF YOUR LIFE.

I’m here to teach you how.

****MEN’S VERSION STARTS MARCH 2020!****
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“Wait, I Have a Question!”

You’re in luck: Answers are my specialty.
Here are some of the most common questions I get asked by prospective OM clients.

Don’t take my word for it! (anyone get that Reading Rainbow reference?)

In case you haven’t looked at my obnoxious amount of testimonials…here are a few more!

After my time with Kira I decided to travel solo over 12K miles working on myself along the way. One of my last stops was my hometown where I reunited with a childhood friend. We are now co-creating a beautiful relationship where everything is falling into place effortlessly, beautifully. And because of the OM I recognized a great man and I was ready. The rest of my life relationships, all of them, will be blessed because Kira helped me find my way. Fix thyself and the rest will follow. – Cindy Want to read more testimonials? Click here.
The lessons that I learned and applied lead me to find a love that I never dreamt possible, and we’re getting married in June. Just to name a few things that I learned/applied that lead me to where I am: 1. Realize what I want, and what I don’t want 2. Be brave and try new things (in my case it was Tinder! Where I met Seth ) 3. Don’t ignore red flags! (I was a serial red flag ignorer) 4. Probably most importantly COMMUNICATE – what you want, what you like, what you don’t; it’s OK to communicate these things and can lead to a stronger, healthier relationship. I look back at how and who I dated and can see how much I grew just from your podcasts and class. So thank you – I’m truly happier than I ever thought was possible. I realized who I was and what I wanted through your class, and I found someone who loves me for me, treats me well, supports me, you name it… THANK YOU! Paula (recently engaged!) Want to read more testimonials? Click here.

Right now I am in the best relationship of my life and I do not say that lightly.    We have been in a relationship for 15 months.  It’s a relationship filled with mutual respect and love.  We communicate very well together and are deeply in love with each other.   We both have  past hurts that creep up sometimes and I’m most proud that we can communicate so well so we know what we need from each other.    Last week he said something unintentionally that hurt me and I was able to articulate what it was that he said and how it made me feel and he was able to immediately realize why I would feel that way.    We talked it out and it was a very grown up conversation.     I can’t believe it took me 7 years to find him but it was worth the wait.     I just now texted him and asked him if he had anything to add and he said ‘Life is best when shared with someone special.   Keep it light and full of laughter’.     That sums up our relationship so well.   

Forever grateful for Kira and the hard work she does with helping other women be who they were meant to be.   Krystal

Want to read more testimonials? Click here.

Before the OM I felt like I only chose unavailable men. They were in another relationship, emotionally unavailable, long-distance, demanding jobs…But the OM showed me that I was being  unavailable because I was not showing up fully as myself and asking for what was important to me. I also learned that I needed to to look for men who I deserved to have in my life, vs me trying to fit the desires and lifestyles or “who they were looking for”.

I was able to find a partner who had the same interest and ability to communicate, be introspective, supportive, show up fully for each other daily, and share intimacy. We are deeply grateful for what we have each day yet are committed to growth as individuals and as a couple.

Julie, Madison

Want to read more testimonials? Click here.

Once I met Bryan, I knew this time it would be different. I  immediately went into OM mode. I set a boundary (him not needing to see me every day) & he followed it. I set another boundary (him buying me dinner all the time….a previous abusive relationship trigger) and he followed it. (Rinse and repeat for the last 5 months!) And yes, he sets them too.

We talk all the time about us. Asking how each others day is, how we can help each other through things, and what (if any) is working our last nerve so those tiny things don’t come up in a disagreement for no reason.  We talk when things aren’t comfortable and that includes those uncomfortable triggers…but we work through them TOGETHER. I now feel like a happy, content, fulfilled, joyful & a better, empowered woman!

Every single woman on this earth should do this. Married, divorced, single, widowed, etc. It’s about personal development.

Michelle, Madison

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I’ve been seeing my new man-friend for 4 months now, and we had a two hour conversation last night about how neither of us would have been ready for what we are building prior to this time in our lives. We each have different strategies for how we’re working on ourselves so as to be able to be present and active in our relationship – and the OM class was a huge part of my growth.

Valuing myself, greater self-awareness, knowing what a relationship can and can’t do for me, understanding and feeling comfortable communicating boundaries, asking for (and knowing) what I need, sitting in vulnerability, realizing when I’m telling stories about who I am/he is (versus really looking at what actually is), being realistic and honest with myself and him about my own issues — these are all things I am more able to do because of the work that was spurred on during the OM class. Thank you Kira!  

Leah – Madison, WI  (now 2 years and counting!)

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We met three months ago in a serendipitous and spontaneous gathering of mutual friends at a concert in Chicago, and have been enjoying and building a slow-going but steady friendship and relationship  since. In the early weeks, he chuckled and called me a “fucking unicorn,” and has since nicknamed me “Uni” for short. He calls me every morning to hear my live voice vs texting (score!), and all of our friends say the connection they see (and we feel) is undeniable. Looking forward to future things. So grateful for the OM !

Lisa

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Tonight we are going to  review my Owner’s Manual  and begin talks about living together! I’m so excited (and not anxious) to hear his thoughts and share mine. I have never had a relationship like this before where I am comfy being myself.

I am where I am because of what I learned from you…I’m open, informed, in touch with who I am and what I want and need! Thank you from my whole heart! You rocked my fucking world Kira!!

Sherri

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Kira gave me the real talk I needed; she had me put on my big girl panties and take a good look at myself and what I wanted.  The growth I experienced from her coaching helped me transform my attitude about dating, and I’ve since snagged the love of my life (who loves my big girl panties btw) and I’m exactly where I want to be!!

– Jeanne,  Madison, WI (now happily married )

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Just like riding a unicorn, this shit gets real…..real fast. 🙂

Now the only access you will have to me is in the fb group (unless you upgrade to calls, etc) but in that group I will be your biggest cheerleader, because I want this for you.  But I will also call you out on perspectives and mindsets that are holding you back.

But don’t be confused…I am not here to be your friend, I am here to change your life.

This will be one of the hardest things you have ever done, but if you REALLY do it, you will walk away a better person.  That part is up to you.

Just like riding a unicorn, this shit gets real…..real fast. 🙂

I will be your biggest cheerleader, because I want this for you.  But I will also call you out on perspectives and mindsets that are holding you back.

But don’t be confused…I am not here to be your friend, I am here to change your life.

This will be one of the hardest things you have ever done, but if you REALLY do it, you will walk away a better person.  That part is up to you.

If you sign-up for the Monthly Calls with Kira upgrade, you will receive a separate email with dates, times and call-in info.  Most calls will be on Tuesday or Wednesdays.  All calls will be recorded so don’t worry if you have to miss one.

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It has provided me with a great group of like minded women; who encourages and supports me as well as cheers me on throughout my journey. It’s quite amazing really!  – Indhira, NYC

I never expected in a million years that I would also be connected to the most incredible women I have ever met. Doing the OM and having this  community has been life changing, The love and support that I have received has changed me completely as a person. I am so thankful I have these women in my life and to have created lifelong connections and friendships with positive, like minded, supportive, loving, women. – Cassie

The women who were part of the OM  are truly some of the most beautiful, strong, intelligent, compassionate, and supportive women I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.  We were able to form a strong bond almost immediately and our friendships have only just begun.  What a cool experience it has been to connect with these women and to watch them grow, while experiencing my own personal growth at the same time! – Kathryn

Five Months.  From the day you sign-up you will have access to the portal and fb group.  Exactly 5 months later you lose access to the FB group unless you choose to extend or add on more modules.

You will, however, have access to your portal indefinitely to refer back to.

Absolutely!  This course is for anyone who identifies as female and all sexual preferences are welcome.

LOGISTICS

No problem!  Start you work now and when the next OM launches you can take the money you paid for this and subtract it from OM price.  

Right now, sweet thing.  The mini manual is open enrollment so you can join at anytime.


The Internet pixies will fly into action, delivering your welcome email and confirmation.  

You can get started right away.

Online.  Your course modules are delivered online (via our slick af online learning system).  You can, however, upgrade to the live event in Denver in June.  Scroll to the bottom of the page for details.

Well you and I both know that I can’t make you do anything. 🙂  

However, this beautiful experience is not meant to be done alone. We need others to share, connect and learn with and from.  

In this community, you will meet incredible women who will be there for you and will push you further and faster than you could ever go on your own.

Hell yes! Bring two. This experience is even better if you sign-up with automatic accountability partners!

Once you purchase there is NO REFUND since you get access to the product immediately.  If for any reason after you have completed the OM you feel it was not worth the money you paid, you can use that money towards a future course, event or retreat.

Each case will be looked at on a case-by-case basis.  If we agree to pause the program temporarily, you can come back and finish it within one year of your original registration date.  

No problem! Danny, my hubs and our client concierge will answer all of your email questions! Email Danny

LEARNING

The moment you sign-up  you will get a welcome email with your username and password to get access to your own private learning platform. This platform has all of the info you need to do the Mini OM process.

You will need access to a computer with internet that has speakers.

This is self paced so you choose your schedule and you have a month for each module.  However, for best success get in the habit of scheduling 2 hours a week to work on your workbook.

You CAN cheat the system but you are only cheating yourself…:) There is a reason that these are in the order they are in.  TRUST THE PROCESS!

Plus this isn’t about finishing quickly, it is about learning, processing, sharing, and changing.

Yes.  

I have tried many other platforms and at this point, FB is the best option for groups.

However, you are welcome to create a private account that is unsearchable just for this program.  The community is a HUGE part of the process.

OPTIONAL UPGRADE EVENT QUESTIONS

The live event will be June 25th-28th, 2020 in Denver.  The Location is TBD and you will receive info as we get closer.

Nope.  This is an upgrade for the Mini Manual.  It is $499 but worth it.

However, you do have to pay for your accommodations (hotel, airbnb, etc) and transportation (flight/shuttle) to the event.  

 

DEN or DIA. Denver International Airport.

Make sure you look on Frontier, Southwest too to get great prices.

Absolutely.  As we get closer to the event you will have the opportunity to find a roommate in the Mini OM group.

Check out the DETAILS FOUR MY FOUR DAY LIVE EVENT IN DENVER TO PRACTICE ALL OF YOUR NEW SKILLS!

This is where it really gets good!  

All of this knowledge is great, but even better when we can get together and practice your new skills in a safe and comfortable space.

From June 25th -28th, you (and all your new OM friends) will dig in with me to work on everything from boundary scripts to body language so you can walk away feeling confident and ready to date like a pro.

*Location in Denver to be announced.

 

AAAAND DRUM ROLL, PLEASE … A FOUR DAY LIVE EVENT IN DENVER TO PRACTICE ALL OF YOUR NEW SKILLS!

This is where it really gets good!  

All of this knowledge is great, but even better when we can get together and practice your new skills in a safe and comfortable space.

From June 25th -28th, you (and all your new OM friends) will dig in with me to work on everything from boundary scripts to body language so you can walk away feeling confident and ready to date like a pro.

*Location in Denver to be announced.

DENVER, CO | JUNE 25 - 28TH, 2020

HERE'S WHAT THE SCHEDULE WILL LOOK LIKE:

Day 1: what you need and how to get it

On the first day, we are taking everything you have learned and we’ll get clear on how new people can fit into your life (‘cause that isn’t always easy to figure out). Then we’ll teach you how to show others how they can treat you so they’re great for you and love you the way you deserve. 

We will also practice identifying who is (and isn’t) emotionally available … and what to do about it!

 

DAY 2: Setting boundaries & having the tough conversations

Saying “no”, speaking up when something doesn’t feel good, asking for what you need … that shit can be scary! Or at least it was before the second day when we give you the templates (and space to practice) the tough conversations you need to have when dating and starting a relationship. Winner, winner, chicken dinner!

 

Day 3: Mastering your body language and feeling confident meeting people.

Not sure how and where to meet people? I got you covered. On day three, we’ll come up with personal strategies for where and how you can meet new people … and how to make sure you come off as approachable when you meet them!  Plus, you’ll get to go on a practice date that’s videotaped so we can watch your body language and ensure you’re sending out messages that build connection and relationships.

Day 4: Stress-free dating.

Dating doesn’t have to be disastrous. On our final day together, we’ll work on healthy dating techniques, timelines and conversations so you feel confident and in control when dating.   We will also take some time to rebuild your online profile (IF you want to date online) to make sure you are attracting the people you want to date!

 

**The four day event is included in all Owner’s Manual packages.  Transportation to and from Denver, as well as,  accommodations during the event are NOT INCLUDED.  

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