You are running in the other direction saying “Nope, Nope, Nope” when people talk about online dating, tinder, social events, leaving your house, putting on pants. You know, the hard stuff.
The only things you feel like you love right now is netflix, wine/vodka and maybe your pet.
Cause truth is, maybe you have been hurt. Maybe the idea of dating just feels super exhausting. You are not even sure it is worth it since most of the couples you know don’t seem that happy.
And we won’t even get to the walls that need to be broken down. Asking others for anything feels like something dirty. Why would someone even want to do that?
But there is a gnawing feeling in the back of your head, that this love-thingy is possible. That there are happy people out there in relationships that feel ok. You just have NO idea how to get there.
You feel really fucking stuck and don’t know where to begin.
But I do and you don’t have to do this alone, Sugarpants:)