Entries by Kira Sabin

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What No Ones Tells You About Real Love

So there I was… Bare-bottomed, lying face down on a paper covered bed in a clinic in Costa Rica. Isn’t this how all good stories start? And you might be asking yourself…“what does this have to do with love?”   Over the last 5 days I had developed a severely painful abscess in the – wouldn’t you know […]

Podcast: Why Your Trust Issues Are About You

Fucking trust. It comes up a lot with my clients. And why wouldn’t it?  Let’s be honest, there are a lot of shit relationships out there and if you have been dating for awhile there is a pretty good chance you have been in at least one. You probably have even caught yourself saying “I […]

Podcast: Why You Are Not Dating Great Guys

One day, I woke up and didn’t want to date unavailable men anymore and I had to have a tough moment where I needed to fess up to myself that it was ME choosing them.  Again and again. I was the one buying the ticket to the crazy train and that shit was on me. Today, […]

Podcast: What Is Your Goal In Love?

Were you mentioning that you like smart, passionate and super sweary rants about relationships? You were?   We are so on the same page.  Kindred fucking spirits. I broke some shit down on the podcast today about stepping back, looking at your goals and making sure your actions and decisions are getting you there. Listen […]

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How I Turned My Hookup Into A Healthy Relationship

It was actually a little awkward. The night I met my boyfriend there were a few faux pas.  Actually, a lot. Actually, okay, there were a shit ton. So there was nothing precious or magical about it really.  At all. For starters, I was a little drunk…and so was he.  By a little I might […]

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What I did right (and wrong) in the first six months of my relationship

Listen to the podcast version below. Can’t listen right now (cause we know you are probably at work!)? That’s ok, check me out on iTunes and download for your workout or commute! Check out all of our podcasts here.  Or just read below:) Sometimes I feel like I am on a reality show.   A really boring reality show, […]

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Do you know how to solve problems in your relationship?

RIGHT NOW I’M SOMEWHERE IN THE SCARED SMITTEN PHASE. One part crazy smitten. And one part scared shitless. Zero parts “acting cool while liking someone.” Here’s the thing… This thing.  This new “like” – was totally unexpected.  I had no idea it was coming. Prior to this, I had done a great job shutting off my […]


You complete me?  I just threw up in my mouth a little (or a lottle). Today, I break down the two ways that you might be looking for love and how one of them is kicking your ass.  Leaving you in the same place six months later. Again and again. Do NOT miss the early […]

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WARNING:  DO NOT READ IF SWEARING OFFENDS YOU OR IF YOU HAVE ZERO INTEREST IN CHANGING THE WORLD. We can’t keep living like this. School shootings.  Overdoses.  Politics.  Suicides… Fuck. I don’t have enough background or knowledge to give you detail after detail on each situation that is happening, however,  I can tell you, that […]


It is 2014.  Things are different than ever before and you have to be ready. Today, I breakdown one thing we are forgetting about love and relationships nowadays and is the most important thing.  Let me know if you agree. Here is the original Psychology Today article.   [powerpress] Can’t listen right now (cause we […]