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EMPOWERING YOU
TO finally GET THE LOVE
& Relationship you want

Let’s turn your romantic shitshow into an empowered love journey.

PUN (SEMI) UNINTENDED.

YOU THOUGHT FINDING LOVE WAS GOING TO BE EASIER THAN THIS.

Sure, you’re an ambitious, clever and successful woman who, by day, makes cool shit happen. But by night, you’re snuggling up with two delicious men: Ben & Jerry. Sometimes you go wild and add … Netflix.

‘Cause the truth is that even though you’ve built this incredible life that you’re really stinkin’ proud of, you don’t have anybody to share it with. 

Love is an asshole, amIright?

…Or is it?

TRUTH? LOVE IS NOT THE PROBLEM.

You know all those stories you’ve been telling yourself? How you’re too old, too fat, too grumpy, too hungry, too intimidating or too much to find love?

Well, they’re fictional BS, and those stories are the REAL problem.

And I’m going to show you how and why — and what you can do to turn this love shitshow around!

I’M KIRA SABIN.

I’m the captain steering the League of Adventurous Singles’ ship and our coaching adventure, Your Owner’s Manual – a six-month coaching experience for single women ready to stop self-sabotaging and start creating healthy and loving relationships.

I spark inner transformations that help women reinvent the relationship they have with themselves, so they can go on to create healthy and loving relationships with others. Boundaries, bravery and self-worth, FTW!

I believe that nothing changes, if nothing changes…

THE LEAGUE OF ADVENTUROUS SINGLES 

AND YOUR OWNER’S MANUAL ARE ABOUT Pairing positive psychology and science with powerful coaching

To empower your self-worth and ignite deep inner transformation that sets the foundation for healthy and loving relationships.  Because what is the point of a relationship if it doesn’t feel good?

THE LEAGUE IS MORE THAN JUST AN ONLINE COMMUNITY

We’re the family you always hoped for. One part love and support, one part no-bullshit truths and a whole lot of fun sprinkled throughout. The League is an online/offline place for all single women no matter your age, size, color, or favorite type of wine.

FROM A FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FILLED WITH AWESOME AF WOMEN LIKE YOU

All having smarter conversations about love and dating, to monthly Facebook Lives on important topics that will amplify your romantic success, The League will leave you feeling confident, capable and ready to face any love (or dating) challenge.

Sound like your kind of adventure?

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LEARN HOW TO UNFUCK YOUR LOVE LIFE WITH LOAS PODCAST.

The smartest (and sweariest) positive psychology podcast that is helping thousands reinvent the way they look at love and relationships. Join me weekly to debunk love myths, rewire your mindset, and get off  the struggle bus and onto the sane train to amazing, healthy relationships!

Headphones On?

LEARN HOW TO UNFUCK YOUR LOVE LIFE WITH LOAS PODCAST.

The smartest (and sweariest) positive psychology podcast that is helping thousands reinvent the way they look at love and relationships. Join me weekly to debunk love myths, rewire your mindset, and get off the struggle bus and onto the sane train to amazing, healthy relationships!

True (and truly fucking inspiring) transformations

I feel way more at peace with myself.

It's the strangest thing...I feel way more at peace with myself. I feel way more confident that not only will a guy show up without me having to worry about it, but I feel freer to be exactly who I am so that if a relationship comes it will just add to the joyful things I'm already filling my life with. It's a really solid and stress-free way to approach dating and relationships! 🙂

-Femi, Austin, TX

2018-12-06T18:51:35+00:00

-Femi, Austin, TX

It's the strangest thing...I feel way more at peace with myself. I feel way more confident that not only will a guy show up without me having to worry about it, but I feel freer to be exactly who I am so that if a relationship comes it will just add to the joyful things I'm already filling my life with. It's a really solid and stress-free way to approach dating and relationships! 🙂

She has helped me see what went wrong in my marriage and how to move forward and learn from the situation.

Kira has been my rock through my divorce and getting back into dating. She has helped me see what went wrong in my marriage and how to move forward and learn from the situation. We have worked on finding back to who I really am and want to be. She has also been a total rockstar in helping me navigate the tricky beginning phase of a new relationship. She is such an incredible support, I don't know how I would have done this without her. She is very, very kind, encouraging and understanding, yet will let me know when I need to be reigned in. Kira is just a cool human being and I'm thrilled to be working with her.

-Ida, Chicago

2018-12-06T19:06:27+00:00

-Ida, Chicago

Kira has been my rock through my divorce and getting back into dating. She has helped me see what went wrong in my marriage and how to move forward and learn from the situation. We have worked on finding back to who I really am and want to be. She has also been a total rockstar in helping me navigate the tricky beginning phase of a new relationship. She is such an incredible support, I don't know how I would have done this without her. She is very, very kind, encouraging and understanding, yet will let me know when I need to be reigned in. Kira is just a cool human being and I'm thrilled to be working with her.

Left the Program Forever Changed

In a sea of relationship programs that exist for single women, "The Owner's Manual" is a breath of fresh air. Kira's program not only gives you the tools you need to have a kick-ass relationship, it also helps you do the deep soulful work necessary in order to be a better partner.  I left the program forever changed.


The best part, however, is Kira as a teacher. Throughout the course, her passion about her clients truly shines through. Besides - a woman who knows how to use "fuck" and make it elegant is someone that will always have a place in my heart.  

-Robin, NYC

2018-12-20T00:17:36+00:00

-Robin, NYC

In a sea of relationship programs that exist for single women, "The Owner's Manual" is a breath of fresh air. Kira's program not only gives you the tools you need to have a kick-ass relationship, it also helps you do the deep soulful work necessary in order to be a better partner.  I left the program forever changed. The best part, however, is Kira as a teacher. Throughout the course, her passion about her clients truly shines through. Besides - a woman who knows how to use "fuck" and make it elegant is someone that will always have a place in my heart.  

I have so many tools at my fingertips now and feel much more confident in myself.

I've spent my entire adult life wishing for and wanting the kind of connection and intimacy I saw in so many other relationships. I thought if I found the "right"person it would just happen.  Now after the OM, I have so much more self awareness. I'm learning how to show myself compassion. How to stop being so hard on myself. I've learned that connection doesn't just happen. It's something you create with another person by being emotionally and physically available. I have so many tools at my fingertips now and feel much more confident in myself.

-Stephanie, San Francisco, CA

2018-12-20T00:18:18+00:00

-Stephanie, San Francisco, CA

I've spent my entire adult life wishing for and wanting the kind of connection and intimacy I saw in so many other relationships. I thought if I found the "right"person it would just happen.  Now after the OM, I have so much more self awareness. I'm learning how to show myself compassion. How to stop being so hard on myself. I've learned that connection doesn't just happen. It's something you create with another person by being emotionally and physically available. I have so many tools at my fingertips now and feel much more confident in myself.

After OM I feel so empowered and know exactly what I want in a relationship

  Before OM I thought that I was the only one struggling with knowing what I wanted in a relationship and how to ask for what I need because I didn’t want to be perceived as “High Maintenance”! After OM I feel so empowered and know exactly what I want in a relationship and am more confident in having the conversations that need to be had when the time comes!  You will dig deep, you will laugh, you will ugly cry and most of all you will feel loved and supported on your journey! 

-Sam, Little Rock

2018-12-20T00:18:56+00:00

-Sam, Little Rock

  Before OM I thought that I was the only one struggling with knowing what I wanted in a relationship and how to ask for what I need because I didn’t want to be perceived as “High Maintenance”! After OM I feel so empowered and know exactly what I want in a relationship and am more confident in having the conversations that need to be had when the time comes!  You will dig deep, you will laugh, you will ugly cry and most of all you will feel loved and supported on your journey! 

Kira has pushed me out of my comfort zone and out of my shell.

Some of my favorite things Kira has helped me to discover…Teach people how to treat me, both in dating and at home with my kids. Know what I want and need AND don’t be afraid to ask for it. Start things the way you want them to end.


Kira has pushed me out of my comfort zone and out of my shell. She is willing to hold my hand if I really need it, but there are no unicorns here. :)”

-Michelle, Toronto ON

2018-12-20T00:19:38+00:00

-Michelle, Toronto ON

Some of my favorite things Kira has helped me to discover…Teach people how to treat me, both in dating and at home with my kids. Know what I want and need AND don’t be afraid to ask for it. Start things the way you want them to end. Kira has pushed me out of my comfort zone and out of my shell. She is willing to hold my hand if I really need it, but there are no unicorns here. :)”

Working with Kira has been one of the greatest decisions I have ever made.

When I heard about Kira I was struggling with being single and dating, looking for love in all the wrong places, chasing after fairytale romance, dreaming of a man to come along who would complete me. I hired Kira and she took me on an amazing journey of self discovery and taught me what real love is all about. Not only has she transformed my thoughts on love and showed me the reality of what relationships really are, she has been a friend and been by my side to support me when I try at this dating thing and it just doesn't work out. 

-Katie, UT

2018-12-20T00:20:15+00:00

-Katie, UT

When I heard about Kira I was struggling with being single and dating, looking for love in all the wrong places, chasing after fairytale romance, dreaming of a man to come along who would complete me. I hired Kira and she took me on an amazing journey of self discovery and taught me what real love is all about. Not only has she transformed my thoughts on love and showed me the reality of what relationships really are, she has been a friend and been by my side to support me when I try at this dating thing and it just doesn't work out. 

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